Delores, I'm pretty sure I'm in love with my best friend, he's 26 and I'm 17. I have been since I was 14, too. It's just getting worse. I don't know what to do. It's hurtful. What advice would you have for me?
What I want to know is why in the world is a 14 year old doing hanging out with a 23 year old? It is easy to love your best friend as you are comfortable with them and enjoy being around them. That doesn't mean it's that kind of "love".
I think you need to rethink exactly what it is you're feeling. First and foremost you need to finish school! Think about yourself first and make things right for you before jumping into a situation that you're not even sure will even pan out. After you graduate, talk to your "friend" and explain how you feel. If your friend feels the same way go from there. If not, you need to have a plan B. Let me know how this works out for you and good luck!
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